For the woman who loved deeply, lost painfully — and chooses to rise into her most powerful chapter yet.

 heal the heartACHE
REWIRE LOVE AT THE ROOT
reclaim your radiance

Heartbreak Alchemy

The LOVE Reinvention Experience

private COACHING
3 MONTH JOURNEY

BRREAKUP TO BREAKTHROUGH
SOUL DEEP TRANSFORMATION

There's a moment in the aftermath of heartbreak that feels like falling through darkness without end.

The nights are the hardest, not just because you're alone, but because you feel like a stranger in your own skin. 

You replay conversations until they blur. You wake up with the ache of remembering pressing against your chest before you've even opened your eyes. And no matter how hard you try, it feels impossible to move forward,  but unbearable to stay here.  

Something in you has shattered, and deep down you know the pieces won't fit back together in the way they once did.

I know this place. I've lived it more times than anyone ever should. Reaching for my phone at 2am, desperate for any word that might make the ache subside. Crying on bathroom floors because I was tired of being the woman who gave everything and was still left behind. I know the taste of self-doubt, the sting of shame, and the hollow ache of wondering if something in you is broken..

What if I told you this moment - is actually the most potent portal you'll ever walk through?

When Her Heart Cracked Open, She Didn't Know It Was Making Space for Something Magnificent to Enter

What if the universe hasn't abandoned you, but is instead initiating you into a love story infinitely greater than the one your heart is grieving?

When Everything Falls Apart,
Anything Becomes Possible

Heartbreak Alchemy
 is a Threshold Crossing

this is more than a coaching program

It’s the sacred moment after everything has fallen apart
when  YOU choose, not just to heal, but to become.

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The Invisible Blueprint

In the heartbreak alchemy: Love Reinvention Experience, we don't just heal what hurts now. 
We transform (for good) the very blueprint that's been silently orchestrating your love story.

Because your anxious attachment isn't your fault, but its healing is your power.

Beneath every heartbreak lies an architecture of patterns etched so deep we mistake them for destiny.

These aren't coincidences..
They're revelations, the language your heart has been speaking all along, trying to show you what needs healing at the very roots of your being.

◦ The way his distance felt like an echo of something ancient within you
◦ The way his absence created a shape your heart has held many times before
◦  The way his goodbye felt almost... inevitable, even during the good times


We'll look deeply at how your past and environment have literally programmed you for mediocre or failed relationships, and rewrite that programming from the inside out.




✓ ILLUMINATE YOUR PATTERNS

Not by numbing or avoiding, but by alchemizing it into the very soil from which your new life will grow





✓ Transcend the Pain

Let go of shame, guilt, and the endless whispers of "what if" and "if only" that keep you tethered to what was.




✓ RELEASE THE PAST

Heal the anxious bonds and abandonment wounds that kept you clinging to unavailable hearts and learn to create secure, safe bonds that honour who you truly are.



✓ Transform Your Attachment 

Develop an unshakable relationship with your emotions, learning powerful techniques to free yourself from anxiety and sadness and create higher vibrational states of feeling. 




✓ MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS

Step beyond the identity of heartbroken and 'the unlucky in love one' into a woman with main character energy, unshakeable in her confidence and self worth.





✓ Embody Your HIGHEST Self

This is the moment it all changes

What we'll do together; (Not a checklist, a soul map.)

For almost 15 years, I've guided women through the tender archaeology of their hearts—women who arrived believing their worth had left with someone else, only to discover it had been waiting within them all along.

The heart that knows the unbearable ache of goodbye carries the blueprint for a love beyond what you've allowed yourself to imagine.

You Rise

What if? 

INSTEAD OF SINKING

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We go deep. Transforming unconscious patterns, healing origin wounds, rewiring your attachment style from the roots up. We'll dissolve limiting beliefs about love and worthiness, heal childhood imprints that have shaped your relationship choices, and build a new foundation for how you relate to yourself and navigate love. 

MONTH [3]
RISE + REINVENT

Here, you claim your new self.
Rooted. Radiant.

You'll step fully into your reclaimed power, create a vision for your life and relationships that honours your wholeness, and embody the woman who will never again abandon herself for love.  


MONTH [2]
REWIRE + REBUILD

In these first weeks, we create sacred space for your transformation. Using powerful techniques to release attachments to your ex and the painful emotions of your breakup.  We'll begin illuminating the patterns that led you here and establish daily practices that anchor you through this journey


MONTH [1]
RELEASE + RECLAIM

How the Journey Unfolds

12 weeks of profound transformation

You won't be the same woman on the other side

and rest assured

YOU'LL BE MORE YOU THAN EVER BEFORE

Unmasked. Unbound.

Not just healing - rewired.

Not just moving on - rising.

How can I get over this faster?    How do I stop comparing myself to his new girlfriend?    Was he lying to me?    What if he comes back?     How can I get over this faster?   How do I stop comparing myself to his new girlfriend?   Was he lying to me?   What if he comes back?   How can I get over this faster?    How do I stop comparing myself to his new girlfriend?     Was he lying to me?     What if he comes back?     How can I get over this faster?     How do I stop comparing myself to his new girlfriend?

"I don’t even recognize the woman who cried over him. I’ve become someone I deeply admire." "It’s not just that I let go of my ex. I let go of the woman who tolerated breadcrumbs." "I feel free. Light. Magnetic. I didn’t just heal, I became a completely new version of me." "I’m not anxious, I’m not waiting, I’m not performing. I feel peaceful, powerful, and fully myself."

   What lessons should I take from this breakup?
    How should I act if I see him? 
   Is he seeing someone?    
  What things help soothe the emotional pain?     What lessons should I take from this breakup?  
  How should I act if I see him? 
   Is he seeing someone? 
   What things help soothe the emotional pain?     What lessons should I take from this breakup?
    How should I act if I see him?    
Is he seeing someone?    
What things help soothe the emotional pain?

    Why didn’t he fight to save the relationship?    How can I stop feeling so anxious about the future?    Will I ever meet someone else?    What should I do if he messages me?    Why didn’t he fight to save the relationship?     How can I stop feeling so anxious about the future?     Will I ever meet someone else?     What should I do if he messages me?     Why didn’t he fight to save the relationship?     How can I stop feeling so anxious about the future?     Will I ever meet someone else?     What should I do if he messages me?

  What tools or practices can help calm my emotions?     What is he thinking?     Why do I keep attracting similar relationship patterns?    How long should I wait before dating again?    What tools or practices can help calm my emotions?     What is he thinking?     Why do I keep attracting similar relationship patterns?    How long should I wait before dating again?    What tools or practices can help calm my emotions?     What is he thinking?     How long should I wait before dating again?

Was our love real if he left so easily?    How do I cope with the fear of being alone forever?    How do I stop idolizing him?    Should I block him on social media?    Was our love real if he left so easily?    How do I cope with the fear of being alone forever?    How do I stop idolizing him?    Should I block him on social media?     Was our love real if he left so easily?     How do I cope with the fear of being alone forever?     How do I stop idolizing him?     Should I block him on social media?

Is there a chance we'll get back together?    Why is he so cold now?    How do I stop thinking about him all the time?    How do I avoid repeating the same mistakes?    Is there a chance we'll get back together?    Why is he so cold now?    How do I stop thinking about him all the time?    How do I avoid repeating the same mistakes?     Is there a chance we'll get back together?     Why is he so cold now?     How do I stop thinking about him all the time?     How do I avoid repeating the same mistakes? 

Why did he start dating someone new so quickly?    Did he ever care?    Should we speak one more time for closure?    Should I apologise?    Why did he start dating someone new so quickly?    Did he ever care?    Should we speak one more time for closure?    Should I apologise?    Why did he start dating someone new so quickly?    Did he ever care?    Should we speak one more time for closure?     Should I apologise?     Why did he start dating someone new so quickly?     Did he ever care?     Should we speak one more time for closure?    Should I apologise?

Can I stay friends with his family?     What if I never find someone like him again?     What things help heal my heartache?     Why am I still feeling so hurt even after this long?     Can I stay friends with his family?     What if I never find someone like him again?     What things help heal my heartache?     Why am I still feeling so hurt even after this long?     Can I stay friends with his family?     What if I never find someone like him again?     What things help heal my heartache?     Why am I still feeling so hurt even after this long?

Why did he betray me?     Should I message him?     Did I do something to cause the breakup?     What should I do with his belongings?     Why did he betray me?     Should I message him?     Did I do something to cause the breakup?     What should I do with his belongings?     Why did he betray me?     Should I message him?     Did I do something to cause the breakup?     What should I do with his belongings?     Why did he betray me?     Should I message him?     Did I do something to cause the breakup?     What should I do with his belongings?

How long will it take to get over my ex?     Can we still be friends?     Is he as happy as he seems on social media?     Was I the problem?     How long will it take to get over my ex?     Can we still be friends?     Is he as happy as he seems on social media?     Was I the problem?     How long will it take to get over my ex?     Can we still be friends?     Is he as happy as he seems on social media?     Was I the problem?     How long will it take to get over my ex?     Can we still be friends?     Is he as happy as he seems on social media?     Was I the problem?

Why did we really break up?     How do I let him go?     Is there anything I can do to win him back?     Why did he give mixed signals?     Why did we really break up?     How do I let him go?     Is there anything I can do to win him back?     Why did he give mixed signals?     Why did we really break up?     How do I let him go?     Is there anything I can do to win him back?     Why did he give mixed signals?     Why did we really break up?     How do I let him go?     Is there anything I can do to win him back?     Why did he give mixed signals?

Does he miss me?    How could he move on so quickly?     What does it mean to truly let go?     Does he miss me?     What has my attachment style got to do with this?     How could he move on so quickly?     What does it mean to truly let go?     Does he miss me?     What has my attachment style got to do with this?     How could he move on so quickly?     What does it mean to truly let go?     Does he miss me?     What has my attachment style got to do with this?     How could he move on so quickly?     What does it mean to truly let go?

How do I handle mutual friends and social events?     Has he moved on?     Was it my fault?     Is it a good idea to get closure by talking to my ex?     How do I handle mutual friends and social events?     Has he moved on?     Was it my fault?     Is it a good idea to get closure by talking to my ex?     How do I handle mutual friends and social events?     Has he moved on?     Was it my fault?     Is it a good idea to get closure by talking to my ex?     How do I handle mutual friends and social events?     Has he moved on?     Was it my fault?     Is it a good idea to get closure by talking to my ex?

Is it really over for good?     How can I change my mindset?     How do I trust again after betrayal?     What is the real reason we broke up?     Is it really over for good?     How can I change my mindset?     How do I trust again after betrayal?     What is the real reason we broke up?     Is it really over for good?     How can I change my mindset?     How do I trust again after betrayal?     What is the real reason we broke up?     Is it really over for good?     How can I change my mindset?     How do I trust again after betrayal?     What is the real reason we broke up?

I created this experience for the version of me who (more than once) curled up on the floor, devastated from a love that unraveled without warning.


Who asked all the questions that love can't always answer.


Who got back up, over and over, but didn’t know how to stop choosing pain dressed as passion.

This isn’t just my work, it’s my life's alchemy.
And guiding women through this portal?
It’s the most sacred thing I do.

Because I’ve seen what happens when we stop patching the cracks of our heart and start reimagining the entire structure of our life.


When we turn inward, not to “fix” ourselves - but to meet the parts we abandoned in the name of being chosen.

I’ll meet you there.
In the unraveling.
In the reinvention.
In the rising.

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06]  Soul Balm: Emotional Regulation Toolkit ($97 value)

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Bespoke healing, releasing and emotional regulations practices, reflection prompts, and resources to deepen your healing and strengthen your heart and self belief in-between sessions

04]  Weekly Integration Materials

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03]  3 Months Unlimited Priority Email/Messenger Access

For those moments when you need immediate support or guidance.

02]  2 SOS "Emergency" Calls

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01]  9 x 60-minute private Coaching Sessions

The Complete
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- NATASHA

"I can see the light and. I feel so differently about my ex and my past relationship situation."

- Sarah

" This didn't just help me survive my breakup - it helped me thrive! I've shifted from victim to deep gratitude, and my newfound strength and perspective have changed everything!"

- SU

"Everyone notices the dramatic change in me since my break-up - the spark is back and brighter than ever! I've rediscovered my joy, and it's lighting up every aspect of my life!"

- KATE

"After such a painful breakup I really thought I was never going to get over it. You helped me believe (in me) and in love again.   I couldn't be happier."

- laura

"I feel like I've had a massive shift. He's falling from the pedestal."

There was a time in my life when love cracked me open so completely, I thought I might never find my way back.
Heartbreak didn’t just break my heart—it unraveled everything I thought I knew about myself, about relationships, about my worth.

But inside that rupture, a strange and sacred thing happened.
A portal opened.
And I walked through it.

What began as devastation became the beginning of everything.
That’s how I know:
Grief is not the end. It’s the invitation.

For over a decade, I’ve guided women through the raw terrain of breakups, betrayal, and emotional entanglement—especially those marked by infidelity, unavailable love, or the patterns that feel impossible to break.
I’m not here to help you “get over it.”
I’m here to help you alchemize it.

Because the truth is, you don’t need fixing.
You need remembering.
And you don’t need more self help advice.
You need reconnection to truth.
A guide who'll lovingly take you on your ascension
Tools that actually work.
And someone who’s walked the fire and can walk it with you.

And I've watched, hundreds of times now as women who felt devastated, hopeless and heartbroken beyond repair discover they were simply being broken open to become who they were always meant to be. And it's pure magic.

I was built to be a psychonaut, a mental, spiritual and emotional deep diver. Seeing what lies beneath while others merely skim the surface. I share truth as sharp as a blade, alongside tenderness that cradles the wound it reveals.

I'm a Visionary Strategist. As an INTJ with a Capricorn Sun, I see the architecture behind emotional patterns, the big picture before it forms. I don't just offer insight—I map out transformation with clarity and precision. I navigate the invisible, structure the chaos, and guide clients into rebuilding a life aligned with their truest self—not from reaction, but from reinvention.

I’m an Introspective Truth-Teller
With a Cancer Moon and a 5w4 Enneagram, I bring emotional depth and raw honesty to everything I do. I’m not afraid to sit in the mess, the grief, the longing, the complexity. I speak to the unspoken, and hold space for women to witness their truth without shame, judgement or urgency. My vulnerability is one of my greatest tools for creating trust and transformation.  I help you speak the things you’ve never said out loud. This is where healing begins.

I’m a Quiet Rebel with High Standards
My Leo Rising and fierce discernment give me a bold edge—I challenge surface-level thinking and the narrative that says “healing has to look a certain way.” I invite courageous self-inquiry, and hold my clients to the highest version of themselves.  I won’t let you collapse into your old story. I’ll help you rewrite a new one that holds both strength and softness. I believe healing should be beautiful, intentional, and laced with integrity. That means I won’t let you settle—for crumbs in love, or in life.

I’m an Intuitive Empath with an Edge
As a Highly Sensitive Person with anxious attachment wiring, I feel deeply. I notice the micro-shifts, the body language, the things left unsaid. I also know how to turn sensitivity into strength. I know what it feels like to ache for connection while fearing abandonment. I use this insight to create emotionally safe, attuned spaces that allow my clients to process old wounds, master emotional regulation, and recalibrate to their highest self reimagined.


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13 YEARS EXPERIENCE

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10,000+ hours OF 1:1 coaching

from women just like you

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A beautiful 'breaking-open' awaits

You're not just experiencing heartbreak – you're being initiated into one of life's most profound transformations.

Time alone cannot heal these wounds, my love. It merely leaves scars that bleed over into future relationships. The invitation awaiting you now is to embrace the healing portal that has been broken open by this heartbreak.

Let's walk this path together, one story, one breath, one episode at a time.

Heartbreak can be a lonely road, but it doesn’t have to be.

FAQ's

If you're feeling the call to something deeper than just "getting over" your breakup—if you sense that this ending is inviting you into a profound beginning—you're ready. This work is for women who are tired of repeating patterns and ready to transform them from the roots up. You don't need to be "healed" to begin; you just need to be willing to look at what hurts with new eyes.

Absolutely. Time alone doesn't heal wounds—it's what we do with that time that matters. Many women come to me years after a significant breakup, having moved on externally but still carrying the internal patterns and pain. The "Breakup to Breakthrough" journey works with these deeper layers, regardless of when the relationship 

While therapy often focuses on understanding and processing past experiences, my approach combines that understanding with active reprogramming of the subconscious patterns driving your relationship choices, the attachments you're finding hard to let go of, the beliefs that are stealing your confidence and potential.. We work not just with your conscious mind but with your nervous system, emotional body, and energetic field to create transformation at all levels of your being. Our work together is present and future-focused, using the past as information rather than your identity.

This is deep, sustained transformation at the level of your subconscious mind, your nervous system and your emotional body. And that holistic approach is necessary because focussing on one area alone may not be enough to create a deeply profound shift.
That's why I've studied extensively and my approach has developed over more than 10,000 hours private 1:1 coaching experience and more than 400 women's lives changed forever. The 'Love Alchemy Method' uniquely weaves together:
* Neuroscience - Understanding how your brain processes love, loss, and attachment
* Attachment Theory - Working with the deeper psychological patterns formed in your earliest relationships
* Neuro-Linguistic Programming (N.L.P) - Rewiring the language of your subconscious mind
* Theta Healing - Accessing the theta brainwave state for profound belief change
* Clinical Hypnotherapy and Deep State Repatterning- Communicating directly with parts of you beyond conscious awareness
* Quantum and Energy Healing - Recalibrating your energy body and vibrational alignment
* Somatics and Embodiment - Transforming your emotional landscape at its source
* Intuitive Guidance and Transformational Coaching - Drawing on two decades of helping women find their way to the highest version of themselves.
All held within a container of unconditional presence, fierce compassion, and unwavering belief in who you're becoming. A 5 star experience from a best in class practitioner. The RESULTS? They speak for themselves.. The PROOF? Hundreds of phenomenal testimonials of lives changed forever from women just like you... "I only wish I'd done this sooner!" "I'm unrecognisable from the woman I used to be." and "Best investment I've ever made!"  are echoed repeatedly throughout all the empowered voices of those I've worked with. Now it's your turn. 

This program isn't focused on "finding new love" because that often becomes another form of running from ourselves. Instead, we focus on becoming the woman who will never again need to compromise her worth for connection. Many women do find themselves naturally attracting healthier relationships after our work together—not because they were seeking it, but because they've become magnetic to a different quality of love.

Beyond our 60-minute sessions together, I recommend setting aside 2-3 hours per week for integration practices, reflection, and the gentle revolution of becoming. This isn't about adding more to your plate—it's about transforming how you move through the life you already have.

This question often comes from the very pattern we'll be healing—the belief that your wholeness, your joy, your freedom from pain and your future isn't worth the investment. I invite you to consider the cost of staying where you are: the emotional energy drain, the impact on your work and other relationships, the precious life force spent on what-ifs and if-onlys. This investment isn't just in healing a breakup—it's in reclaiming your entire relationship with love and with yourself. You can check out the many testimonials of women who have courageously decided to invest in themselves and their only regret is.. they wished they'd done it sooner!

Now it’s time to rise as the woman you were always meant to be - powerful, radiant, deeply at peace.

Because your love story was never supposed to end with them.

It was meant to begin with you.

A final whisper to your Heart

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Let’s see if this is the sacred container your soul is ready for.
You don’t need to do this alone anymore. I’ve got you.

With love and fierce belief in your becoming,
Peta xo